Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Geez...17 months!

Tate is 17 months, which means 1 month away from a YEAR AND A HALF! How does this warp speed growing of my baby keep happening?!? I will never be okay with it! Seriously, he is still a newborn to me, yet it feels like there has been a carseat in our car forever...you know what I mean. I know it doesn't really make sense, but it's true. Dang babies, grow up way too fast.

He is in a learning growth spurt for sure. Things that used to take him a while to pick up on, he gets so quickly now! I can show him a sign a handful of times and he has it down. He still isn't saying anything, but I know that will come with time. We are still making allowances for his prematurity, in some aspects, mostly in his growth and terrible eating!

He is not premature tiny by any means, he is actually a tall little dude, but skinny! His weight percentiles are constantly dipping off the charts or staying below the 10th percentile. For the past few months he has been on pediasure (which is more expensive than formula, when we should be finally on cheap regular milk...whatever), to help him gain weight and to supplement his nutrition. Seriously, some days he will not eat anything. It really is a constant battle and something that I stress about on an hourly basis. I know one day it will be funny when he is a teenager eating us out of house and home, but right now I would give anything for him to chow down!!

Just had an appointment here with our new Maine pediatrician, who is great old school doctor...cool crazy old man hair and all (I judged when I first saw him)...but he was great. We have lucked out in the pediatrician department with all the moving and changing and the difficult child we have. Our pedis have been so attentive to Tate's needs and medical history and spend time with us. I am uber grateful for that! I got some more reassurance, that I am in fact a decent mom (sometimes that is nice to hear when you get stressed), and we are going to get the referral we need to pediatric gastro doc here. Off to a good start!


17 Month Stats (we have stats for essentially every month, and more!)
21 pounds 7 ounces - 7th %
33.75 inches - 50(something) %
See what I mean...tall and skinny. He seriously has the most hilarious little butt ever!

1. Tate these days could be a silent stand up comedian, just a funny dude. He makes me laugh...when he isn't making me want to lock myself in the bathroom for a few minutes of mommy peace (don't judge...you mommies know what I am talking about)!
Did I mention his possible modeling career? The kid can do it all!

2. He signs more, all done, milk, and bath. Bath is for sure his favorite. When he gets bored during the day, he will walk to the bathroom door and just starting signing up a storm. I have to be careful when I use the b-a-t-h word or he can get very upset. The kid is serious about his bath and about his possible career in splashing. He also has a book of pictures to teach words and he likes to turn to the bathtime page and sign away...then clap for himself.


The skinny butt I previously mentioned (notice the perfectly timed shot showing the pee hitting the floor)!

3. Clapping...he stopped for a while, but it is back more than ever now. When people on tv clap, Tate joins in (he seems to support all candidates on the debates). When he successfully climbs onto something he shouldn't be on, he claps.

4. Climbing...just about everything! When he gets on something, he just likes to stand there, like a king of the mountain type thing. Climbs of choice...the coffee table, chairs, barstools, into the drawer under the stove, up the side of the crib (from which point he cries), on top of his ride on car, the toilet...I could go on.

5. The toilet. Still loves it! We got a latch thing for the one in our bathroom so that he can be in our bathroom when I get ready in the morning without a splash fest, now it is just a water wasting flush fest instead and a stack all of mommy's bathroom products on top of the toilet fest. I do sit him on top of the toilet (lid closed) to brush his teeth...not sure why.

6. Teeth brushing...Tate is also a big fan of that. When I say it is time to brush his teeth he goes to the bathroom sink while I get the toothbrush ready, then heads over to the toilet to sit down. He does his own little sign for it too. I brush his teeth then let him do it too.

7. He is finally starting to actually point to things when I ask him. He will now show me his head, eyes, ears, nose, mouth, and his favorite (which he will show anyone) belly button. I am pretty sure every kid has a belly button thing at one time or another...cute!

8. Loves little boy hot wheel cars...and mommy thinks it is the cutest thing ever. He likes to carry them around, drive them on things, put them in things, and make his version of the vroom sound. He also points to cars on everything else, his little couch, his pjs, books. Took his first nap with a car in his hand the other day...he fell asleep with it and I thought it was too cute to take it away!

9. Besides his career in comedy, he might be a professional dancing machine! Seriously, the kid has moves...like real rhythm. He gets it! He waves his arm in the air for slow songs and rocks back and forth. And for fast songs, you better watch out cause he will break it down. He was jamming out in Children's Place today in his stroller like his life depended on it...I don't even need to mention that he was wearing sunglasses too. He is too cool for school!
A particularly intense dance session on top of the couch!

10. Tate is totally getting good a being a cold weather baby. He gets his boots when it is time to go and puts his arms out for both of his jackets to be put on. He leaves his hood or hat on...serious progress!
He thinks the elevator in our condo is amazing!

11. Oh...and so sweet, when we get ready to pray at night or for a meal, we tell him it is time for prayer and he fold his cute little arms and smiles all proud. The prayer has to be fairly quick for him to keep them folded and he doesn't have the reverence part down, but it is so dang sweet!

12. He still loves to randomly give mommy and daddy kisses. He will just come up to me during the day and make his kiss face and sound. Melts my heart, every.time.

13. He loves to sit in my lap. I sit on the floor to play with him and he will come up and climb in my lap to sit and play. In the evenings, he will bring me to his room and point to his books so he can sit in my lap for us to read together. I love his time in my lap and I know it won't last :(

I am sure I could go on and on. But Tate does new cute, funny, crazy things everyday. Zachary and I love to lay in bed at night and talk about all those little things. He is such a crazy little blessing and our little monster. I still can't believe how big he is getting!!

Bottom line...love. this. baby.

Friday, January 20, 2012

Life up North!

So far living in New England, the FAR north-east, almost Canada, Greater Portland, Maine has been great! It is always a bit crazy to see the local weather on tv and realize that the region they are showing is at the very top of the U.S. Funny that we came from Mexico to almost Canada! Sometimes it is just hard to wrap my mind around how far north we really are, but the snow and cold make it a bit easier :)

Our lovely condo, with the little monster who gets into everything!

It is really beautiful here. Snow covered pine trees and a snow covered beach...two of my favorite things, but covered in pretty snow! I can't really complain about that. And the view out our windows ain't too shabby either. We were seriously blessed to come here in the winter and get this amazing condo in this cute little beach town for such a great price. I now know why it is so cheap to live here now...everything is closed! I would guess 75% of all the beach shops and restaurants are closed and, from what we hear, will remain that way until Memorial Day. By Memorial Day, I have no clue where we will be...but it won't be here enjoying the amusement park right out our windows :(


Sadly, even though our building is steps from the beach, I have to admit, we have only gone for 1 walk on the beach! It is more of an admire through the window kind of thing when the wind chills are frequently below zero! Stepping out of the building to go to the car, it is like a wind tunnel and it never fails to take my breath away. I have always kept a package of wipes in the car, just to be efficient and prepared, you know, and they have been frozen solid for at least a week...not much good to me that way!!


Tate is doing well here. He is enjoying having his own room and space to run around and play. He loves to stand at the windows and look outside. The snow plows are his favorite, he makes this cute little face and says "Oooooo"! He is starting to play on his own a bit and sometimes will go in his room and shut the door, but he still mostly prefers to have mommy around. I don't mind too much, sometimes he just makes it a bit hard to get, well anything, done! I am planning an all about Tate post...but let just say, still cute as ever (actually, cuter than ever), still hilarious, and getting smarter by the day. But also still a skinny little butt and terrible eater...some things never change!!


One thing we really enjoy here is the way people talk. Seriously...sometimes, it is hard to not crack up! I bet they think similar things about us, but Zach and I have had some good laughs and he is really good at doing his best Maine-ite impression. As with anywhere, some people's accents are minor, but occasionally I will hear someone in a store or talk to someone and it is out of control! Also...Dunkin Donuts, EVERYWHERE. Like there are probably 10 or more within 15 miles of our place, open all day too. We have had two boxes of the 24 count munchkins that may or may not have only lasted one evening...don't judge, since we don't drink coffee, we have to get our Dunkin somehow!

All jokes aside though, I am really grateful for all the opportunities I have had and will have (might need a reminder of this after move #5 or so) to move to different places and see how truly different it can be...in the US or not. It is blessing to be able to meet different people and especially to see the church going about it's business everywhere we go. The people in our little ward here have been super welcoming and I am sure we will be sad to leave. I really want to focus on gratitude for all these experiences to avoid frustration with our somewhat nomadic life. I know that we will look back on our insane med school experience as one of the best times in our life...and right now, I am enjoying living somewhere with a REAL winter!

Our building is on the left and the amusement park on the right. Cute little town of Old Orchard Beach!!